When a man is interested in you, he won’t be coy about it and he will not let you make all the moves. If he is truly into you, he will send out some undeniable signs that he likes you. Those signs could be implicit or lead to an unmistakable declaration of his feelings. Perhaps you are unsure about his interest in you and don’t want to look like a fool by confessing your feelings first. Maybe he’s going through the same worry. That’s why we are here to save you from this anguish and tell you all about the subtle signs he likes you but is afraid of getting hurt.
If you have been going out for a while or meeting up often, there might have been instances where he expressed his interest in you. Whether it is shy taps on your shoulder, looking into your eyes often, or sending good morning texts every day, there will be some genuine signs he likes you. With the help of body language psychology and some scientific research, we will tell you how to read them.
21 Undeniable Signs That He Likes You
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If you are a little puzzled about whether his hints actually mean something or not, you can stop worrying. Because here are 21 undeniable signs that he likes you and wants you in his life.
1. You catch him staring at you
Eye contact attraction is real and it is a universal love language. Not in a creepy, uncomfortable way but in an endearing, sweet way that makes your cheeks blush. If you sometimes catch your date looking at you when you are looking away or adorably staring at you when you are not paying attention, he is admiring you. Flirting with your eyes is definitely a thing.
A man will only do that if he is charmed by you and cannot look away from you. Eyes never lie. They reveal what people fail to express through their words. One of the signs a guy is trying to hide that he likes you is when you catch him staring at you and he immediately looks away coyly. On the other hand, he will maintain eye contact with you to boldly let you know that he has strong feelings for you.
2. He touches you adoringly
One of the undeniable signs that he likes you is when he often caresses you or touches you in an adoring manner. He may often stroke your back lightly, put his arms around your waist, or move your hair out of your face. These touches do not necessarily have to be sexual and will never be offensive. They are light and soft, and will often not mean anything other than the fact that he is purely smitten by you.
His gentle touches are obvious signs he likes you for more than your body. By lightly grazing your arms and touching your shoulder, he is gauging if you are okay with it all. If you don’t back away from his touches and subtly convey that you liked them, he will become more confident in his actions.
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3. Sign he really likes you – He asks the right questions
Usually, on initial dates, people spend a lot of time understanding the other person and their history. If a guy is putting genuine efforts into asking you important questions, he may like you very much. If he goes beyond the basic getting-to-know-you questions, this is one of the big signs a guy is trying to hide that he likes you. He may ask both simple and deep relationship questions like:
- What is the craziest thing you have ever done?
- What’s one of your favorite movie moments?
- What is the one moment in your life you would love to get back to if you could?
- What makes you wake up in the morning?
- What’s your relationship dealbreaker?
4. He pays attention to your social media
Social media stalking (without the creepy element) is a very acceptable practice these days. We all do it often and it has now become a subtle sign of showing interest in another person. If he often views your stories and replies to them consistently, these are signs he wants to approach you. Online flirting now consists of social media lurking, but is only acceptable when the other person reciprocates as well.
If he comments on your older pictures or brings up your social media activities in his conversations – it’s an undeniable sign that he is falling for you and he is clearly spending a lot of his time scrolling through your profile.
5. He sends good morning texts
Sending morning messages to people randomly can be a tedious affair. A man will only do so with someone he truly likes and wants. If he makes the effort to wish you a good day or ask how your morning has been going and then checks in to see if you’re okay in the evening too, he might be a keeper! This is a big deal because it shows that he thinks about you right after he wakes up from his deep slumber. This is one of the little gestures that proves his adoration for you.
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6. He remembers the things you tell him
There is nothing more charming than a man who is attentive to the things you say. Most people often make conversation to keep the chat light and interesting but then lose interest and forget the things the other said. If a guy genuinely likes you, he will always give his 100% in listening to you and remembering the things you tell him.
He will remember the small moments that took place when the two of you went out for a meal. He will give you his undivided attention when you are with him. Don’t be surprised if he suddenly brings up the name of your first pet in a conversation. It is one of the subtle signs he likes you more than a friend.
7. Your dates are often longer
Your date going well is one thing. However, if you notice that your dates with him are often longer than the ones you have been on with others, this may be a really good sign! He will also come up with some really fun date ideas for you. A person will only invest extra time and energy into somebody with whom they see the potential of things moving forward.
If a guy is not eager to take you home after a date but stays in touch and makes you feel wanted and safe, he is clearly falling for you. When a guy takes out the time to engage with you for longer periods, he wants to spend as much time with you as he can. That’s why he will select restaurants that are far from where the two of you live so he can be in your company for a little longer.
8. He sends quick replies to your texts
If a man’s texting game (with you) is strong, it is one of the signs he really likes you. Whether you’re discussing your day or just sending him a funny GIF, if he is quick to respond, it is one of the undeniable signs that he likes you. Moreover, if he spends long hours chatting with you and making efforts in the textual conversation, he is clearly into you.
A man’s texting style will tell you a lot about his feelings toward you. He will send you long paragraphs and cute heart emojis. When a man pauses everything that’s happening around him just to reply to your texts, it is one of the first date signs he likes you and wants to take things forward.
9. He compliments you
And not just simple, generic compliments. If a man truly notices the little things about you and talks about them dotingly, he wants to be more than just a friend to you. Complimenting well is one of the ways to make a girl fall for you. For example, if he stares into your eyes and says “The color of your eyes is absolutely dazzling,” rest assured he likes you for more than just your eyes.
He will constantly compliment you during the early stages of seeing you, but will continue to do so even when you are more comfortable with each other. This shows his affection and how mesmerized he is by your beauty and intellect. You can also compliment him back if you have strong feelings for him.
10. He flirts with you
It is obvious that when a man likes you, he will definitely try to flirt with you. He will try to crack cheesy jokes when you are around just to see if he can make you laugh or uses memes to flirt with you. According to scientific research, the first key to successful subtle flirting is not an ability to show off and impress, but the knack of conveying that you like someone. If your crush knows that you find them interesting and attractive, they will be more inclined to like you. Conveying that you like someone, and judging whether or not the attraction is mutual, clearly involves a combination of verbal and non-verbal communication skills.
So, if he has been trying to flirt with you without telling you how many cars he owns or how much wealth he has, it is one of the signs he likes you for more than your body. Here are some ways to tell if a guy is flirting with you or not:
- He won’t stop smiling when you are around
- He will indulge in playful teasing
- He will make sure you’ve eaten and hydrated
- He will angle his body in your direction when he listens to you
- He will blush when you compliment him
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11. He gives you thoughtful gifts
On birthdays, Christmas, or any other special occasion – if a guy brings a thoughtful gift for you, there is a good chance he likes you. If the gift is not a simple or formal one, it indicates that he took out the time to think about your tastes. For example, you drink tea every day and he buys you a cute teapot in your favorite color.
This shows that he is attentive toward your likes and dislikes. Not just that, he has thoughtfully used that information to get you something that you would appreciate. This is one of the undeniable signs a guy is trying to hide that he likes you. The gifts don’t have to be extravagant to convey his feelings for you. It can be something as small as a keychain but if it says something on the back that aligns with your sentiments, you know he likes you a lot.
12. He doesn’t mind being vulnerable with you
It takes a lot for a guy to be vulnerable in his relationships. He will only try to establish an emotional connection with you when he is sure about you. He won’t be vulnerable during the early stages of getting to know you. But once the two of you have spent a considerable amount of time together and if he sees a future with you, he will throw off his mask and reveal his flaws.
He will tell you all about his fears and insecurities. When he does this, you have to make sure you don’t judge him. You just have to be a sympathetic listener and validate his feelings. If you are ready, then you can do the same thing and this exchange of sensitivity will make the two of you strongly linked to each other.
13. He opens up about his past relationships with you
One of the subtle signs he likes you more than a friend is when he tells you about his past relationships. He will let you in on his relationship traumas and the cause of his breakups. He will be honest if he was the one who cheated or if he got cheated on. He will tell you all the feelings he experienced after being cheated on and won’t shy away from telling you his heartbreaking stories.
14. He likes your approval
One of the signs he likes you but is hiding it is if he seeks your approval and appreciation in tactical ways. He may dress to impress just to elicit a compliment out of you. Or he may gleefully talk about himself and his hobbies to gain your approval and wait for you to validate him. He might even sing your favorite song randomly to see how you react.
15. He is always ready to help you out
When you are in need, or danger, or just need someone to grab a bite with – he takes the initiative to be there for you. He is clearly showing you that he likes you and wants you to notice him badly. However, he does not do this to make you like him back. He only wants to help out because he truly cares for you. This clearly shows his affection for you.
Does he pick up your call regardless of where he is and how occupied he is? Does he at least call back soon after? If he doesn’t mind showing up to your house in the middle of the night to help you with your assignment or to just be there for you during difficult times, it is one of the clear signs he likes you for more than your body.
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16. He likes to mirror you
This doesn’t just end at absorbing vocabulary or your gesticulations. If you mention having read a book, say1984, he may read it too just to share a commonality with you. Perhaps you recommend a movie to him that is your favorite, he may immediately watch it to be able to relate to you better.
Mirroring a conversation partner’s gestures, expressions, posture, vocal pitch, or tone can reflect rapport or a desire to please. Research shows that this act of mirroring someone’s body language is seen most often between romantic partners. If he mirrors your body language and won’t stop with his subtle flirting, it’s one of the signs he wants to make you his girlfriend.
17. He matches your pace when walking
This sign may not reveal itself too easily unless you really observe it. It may seem like a small, unnoticeable thing but is one of the subconscious signs a man likes you. If you often walk together at the same pace and maintain a flowy rhythm, there is clear attraction between the two of you. This is one of the male body language signs of attraction. Walking at the same pace is one of the underrated expressions of intimacy.
18. He teases you playfully
If a guy likes to pull your leg to instigate cute reactions out of you, it is one of the undeniable signs he likes you but is afraid of getting hurt. If he likes to tickle you, play silly pranks, or crack harmless jokes about you, then he is trying to have fun with you. When a man likes to annoy you in a playful and consensual manner, it is an easy tell that he likes you sincerely.
19. He invites you wherever he is going
If his friends have planned an informal barbecue or he needs to drive out of the city for an errand, he may ask you if you are free. One of the signs he really likes you is when he asks you out even during unconventional circumstances. He may even ask you to go on double dates with him! He does this because he doesn’t want to miss any opportunity to spend time with you. Furthermore, he will feel protective of you and won’t let you be alone in a tricky situation.
20. He encourages you to be your best self
If a guy is always motivating you and supporting your dreams, then he believes in you and likes you very much. He wants to see you succeed. Whether it is bagging a job or learning a new cheesecake recipe, he will always be there looking over your shoulder, ensuring that you hold your head high.
21. He does things for you that he does not enjoy himself
For example, you love biking but he does not enjoy it as much. He will still make the effort to wake up in the morning to go biking with you, and for you. He is not doing this as a favor to you but because he deeply cares about you and what you want. He wants to spend more time with you and share the activities that you enjoy to make you happy!
Key Pointers
- When a guy likes you, his feelings for you will be evident through his mannerisms, body language, and the way he talks about you with others
- Two of the signs a guy is trying to hide that he likes you is when he tries to make eye contact with you and looks away when you catch him, and when he immediately replies to your texts
- If he wants to become your romantic interest, he will often compliment you, buy you presents, and support you every step of the way
These signs will reveal his real intentions toward you. Only a guy who genuinely wants to be in your life will display the above behavior in the hope that you like him back. Guys who have casual intentions won’t bother spending so much time making you fall in love with them. So, if you like this guy back, let your feelings be known and live out your own fairy tale.
This article was updated in February 2023.
FAQs
He will smile often, touch you dotingly and consensually, and take complete interest in your conversations.
Yes, there can be times when a guy likes you but has not even admitted it to himself yet. However, it will still show in his interactions with you.
Yes. If they are staring at you lovingly, holding your hand, or paying attention to you constantly, they have been thinking about you when you’re not around. Immediate replies to your texts and checking in with you regularly indicate the same.
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