People suffer in relationships. They heal too. But suffering and healing does not necessarily happen in that order. Physical abuse and marital rape are extreme forms of suffering that many people endure in their relationships. But suffering also happens when one partner is extremely selfish, narcissistic or is unaware of a partner’s emotional needs. Years of neglect and constant bickering can also result in a kind of suffering and it takes time to heal.
In this section Bonobology shares stories of how people suffered yet, they found the strength to struggle through this phase and then move on. They survived to tell the tale and healed to start a new life.
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This is not just about my experience; it’s about the collective power of #MeToo to awaken dormant pain in survivors everywhere. I explore the complex emotions that arise – anger, shame, grief – and the unexpected strength found in solidarity with others. It’s a raw and honest look at how a global movement can spark […]
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Men respond fundamentally different to breakups than women. We bring you a Men vs Women perspective to understand the process better.
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Left traumatised after an incident years ago, he hadn’t been able to sleep with his wife, until she broke down his walls
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(As told to Priya Chaphekar) A woman tells her life journey, who was married off young. She had to deal with an alcoholic husband and domestic abuse but she held on. After her husband’s demise, she took back control of her life and is now whole-heartedly enjoying her 30s as a single mother. It Started
My Husband Passed Away And I’ve Never Been Happier Read More »
Cyber bullying is not unheard of. It can damage people for years. Read this account and understand how to be careful.
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(As told to Balaka Basu) I was 22 years old when I fell madly in love with him. We started going out on dates. He was very courteous during those dates, but always maintained that I shouldn’t expect him to fall in love with me, because he was heartbroken after his first girlfriend dumped him.
Betrayal’s Bitter Twist When My Cousin Stole My Ex Read More »
(As told to Anish AR) My husband won’t spend any money at all “Abhay, please give me Rs 200 for buying some vegetables,” I asked him. He yelled, “I will not. You can use your money.” As stunned I was from the outside, inside I found it hilarious. I was stunned because he refused to
Why is it difficult for older single women in India to find partners after the age of 40? What are the chances of getting married after 40?
It can start with abuse or simply show up as an impulse. Know how to deal with a crime of passion.
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