Suffering and Healing

People suffer in relationships. They heal too. But suffering and healing does not necessarily happen in that order. Physical abuse and marital rape are extreme forms of suffering that many people endure in their relationships. But suffering also happens when one partner is extremely selfish, narcissistic or is unaware of a partner’s emotional needs. Years of neglect and constant bickering can also result in a kind of suffering and it takes time to heal.

In this section Bonobology shares stories of how people suffered yet, they found the strength to struggle through this phase and then move on. They survived to tell the tale and healed to start a new life.
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losing yourself in a relationship

8 Signs You Are Losing Yourself In A Relationship And 5 Steps To Find Yourself Again

Are you here looking for signs of losing yourself in a relationship? Well, if you have stopped watching your show or quit your favorite seafood dish just because your partner hates it, you are slowly getting lost in a relationship. If you have made your partner the center of your world and adopted their social […]

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gaslighting phrases in relationships

25 Gaslighting Phrases In Relationships That Kill Love

Common gaslighting phrases and gaslighting sentences are used by a gaslighter to confuse a person, control them, and erode their self-esteem. Narcissist gaslighting phrases used by a narcissist can be even more dangerous and painful when used in a relationship. Since it can very easily be overlooked, we list out the most common gaslighting phrases so you don’t have to question whether you’re being emotionally abused or not.

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