Suffering and Healing

People suffer in relationships. They heal too. But suffering and healing does not necessarily happen in that order. Physical abuse and marital rape are extreme forms of suffering that many people endure in their relationships. But suffering also happens when one partner is extremely selfish, narcissistic or is unaware of a partner’s emotional needs. Years of neglect and constant bickering can also result in a kind of suffering and it takes time to heal.

In this section Bonobology shares stories of how people suffered yet, they found the strength to struggle through this phase and then move on. They survived to tell the tale and healed to start a new life.
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You did not work on your relationship

The Foundation Of Your Relationship Is Weak, If You Can See These 8 Signs

The idea of a relationship is rooted in love. People expect a whirlwind romance, drama, a legendary happy ending like those zany Hollywood rom-com movies. But, relationships are rarely that glossy or dressed in haute-couture. A strong relationship foundation requires work every day. Consider the foundation of a relationship like that of a building. If

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knowing when to walk away

Gaslighting In Relationships – 7 Expert Tips To Identify And 5 Ways To End It

Something is incredibly wrong in your relationship but you just can’t put a finger on it. You’re feeling inadequate and drained, and you’re consistently being told that it’s all your fault… Is there a term that explains what you’re going through? Yes, what you’re going through seems to be the classic case of gaslighting in

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