Several factors put the burden or a tag of being a nice guy on your shoulders. For instance, reluctantly agreeing to something when you want to say no or holding yourself back from expressing an opinion out of a desire to please others. You are considered a nice guy if you do these things. When it comes to romantic relationships, the nice guy label is associated with a person who does things not always out of kindness, care, or love, but sometimes with ulterior motives such as rewards and recognition, albeit subconsciously. You may very well believe that being nice and saying yes all the time will get you a date or two but that is not always the case. In fact, it could be one of the reasons you are not taken seriously or are overlooked in many situations, causing heartbreak.