Get him in the mood with ‘dirty dancing’

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Updated On: October 7, 2024
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“When Marimba Rhythms start to play
Dance with me, make me sway
Like a lazy ocean hug the shore
Hold me close, sway me more.”

This iconic song Sway from Dean Martin can tempt people to sing, sway and dance right away. Each line of the song will make you want to get up close and sensual with him. That is what happens when a good song plays, and you indulge in sultry dance moves to woo and seduce your man. Dance; my love has the magic to turn anyone on.

How to dance sexually when you are a beginner?

Dance is beautiful; dance is magic. Do not feel nervous or scared just because you have never danced before. Once you know how to sway, you will fall in love with it. This is the first step before you begin to dance for the man. Here are some tips that will help you in making the right seductive dancing moves.

  • Start exercising or just walking to get your body into a flexible model. Any stiffness will impair your progress and moves
  • Watch what you are wearing. Spruce up your wardrobe and stock Western wear that makes you feel sexier, bolder and a badass babe
  • Read interesting articles on dirty dancing moves and get to know tricks to master the art
  • Get over inhibitions if you want to drive your man crazy in bed. The only way to strip for your man is by freeing the mind from all sorts of apprehensions
  • Heard about lap dance moves? If not, then search on the Internet and try to use the tips when the night is young, and your man is ready for the show
  • Try sending seductive photos, messages, and videos as the evening sets in. This is to build an atmosphere before the actual act is staged
  • Most importantly, buy the right lingerie that will add drama to the dance performance. The traditional trick is to reveal some and leave some for the imagination. You too should make the most of it

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Eight seductive dance moves to get him in the mood

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Calculated dance moves give you a chance to touch, tease and tickle your man. And no; you don’t have to be a pro in dancing, all you may need is some tips which you can get from so many videos online.

Try catching up with the legendary film ‘Dirty Dancing’ to get some serious inspiration. Then there is Abba’s Dancing Queen number that will make you feel like a diva ready to cast a spell. This is just the beginning. Look upon the Internet, and you will have a whole new world of songs to get on with dirty dancing moves.

1. Shake that booty like dance diva Shakira

Shakira is one singer who manages to shake millions of men around the globe. Her signature dance moves using her hips can set many mouths agape. You don’t have to be a pro like her! Just move your hips in a curvy manner with your hands above your head. This movement is sure to set the pulse racing.

2. Dance, strip, and sex

Put on a coat with a white shirt and pants. Don’t forget to wear that sexy lingerie inside. Play a hot song, dance slowly, removing one layer of clothing with each move. Pull him on the dance floor and ask him to help you undress. This one is fun, and you really will have a blast once in bed together.

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3. Dancing on the bed and under the sheet

Pull up a chair and let your man be the audience. Play a mash-up of sultry songs and dance on the couch like you are making love to yourself. Let your man long for you as you flaunt your cleavage and bare legs in front of him. Here is where you take dirty dancing to a new level.

4. Chair, you and him – the perfect combination

Ask him to sit on the chair while music plays in the background. Slowly unbutton his shirt as you dance to the number. Tease him, bite him and kiss him while feeling his bare chest. Occasionally sit on him and get him close to you. This will set the dance floor on fire literally. Try this one for sure.

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5. Slow crawl on the floor

Wear a low-neck nightgown, stand on the floor on all fours and crawl slowly towards your man. While he waits on the bed, you move slowly with seductive looks and sensual moves. This one needs no practice, and you can get started right away.

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6. Couple dance and loads of mush

Don’t spend thousands on a candlelight evening. Create the ambience at home by ordering wine, food and good music. Dress up in that little black dress and ask your man to dress up too. As you enjoy a glass of wine in his arms on soulful music, try touching him in places where he would clench his fist in excitement. You might skip the meal for a little mischief under the sheets.

7. Dancing in the bathroom

This is one of the best places to get started for a seductive dirty dancing session. Imagine music being played as the two of you get under the shower, kiss, fondle and dance like two crazy souls. With the two of you naked, get in tune with the song and get touchy-feely.

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8. Learn a dance form to sway like a pro

This one might take time, but the outcome is going to leave your man surprised. Learn salsa, hip-hop or jazz or any other Western dance form. Perfect each move and throw a surprise dance performance for your man. Select a song that will make you look a sex siren and drive your man crazy. Chances are he might dream of you even in the office.

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