Is My Girlfriend a Narcissist? Quiz

Have you ever wondered if the woman you fell for, the one whose charm initially blinded you, might be… different? Not just different, but exhibiting patterns that leave you questioning if she truly loves you or just loves how much you care about her. Maybe she’s left you wondering, “Am I dating a narcissist?”

Dhriti Bhavsar, a renowned relationship counselor and psychologist, knows this dance all too well. She’s seen the heartache, the confusion, the erosion of self-esteem that dating a narcissistic girlfriend can cause. Through this “Is My Girlfriend a Narcissist Quiz,” she offers a tool to help you identify whether or not your girlfriend exhibits narcissistic behavior.

Is your girlfriend self-absorbed, dismissing your needs and emotions? Does she exhibit a superiority complex, subtly (or not so subtly) minimizing your achievements? Does her negativity cast a shadow over your relationship, leaving you drained and questioning your own worth?

Related Quiz: Is my husband a narcissist?

Take a deep breath, trust your intuition, and let’s embark on this journey together

Related Quiz: Narcissistic Personality Disorder Test

Questions

1. Does she seem interested in only speaking about herself, and not listening to others?
   1. Often/All the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely/Never
2. Does she take accountability and admit her mistakes when she’s confronted about being wrong?
   1. Often/All the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely/Never
3. Does she hold petty grudges against people?
   1. Often/All the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely/Never
4. Does she seem overly concerned about her social status and how people think about her?
   1. Often/All the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely/Never
5. Does she become passive aggressive when she doesn’t get what she wants?
   1. Often/All the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely/Never
6. Does she seem extremely concerned with her physical appearance, more so than others?
   1. Often/All the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely/Never
7. Does she respond to and handle criticism well?
   1. Often/All the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely/Never
8. Does she use her appearance or sexual means to get out of arguments?
   1. Often/All the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely/Never
9. Does she have very poor self-esteem and requires constant reassurance?
   1. Often/All the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Rarely/Never
10. Is she overly sensitive and reactive to anything she doesn’t like?
    1. Often/All the time
    2. Sometimes
    3. Rarely/Never
11. Is she prone to outbursts of jealousy, moodiness, anger, and crying?
    1. Often/All the time
    2. Sometimes
    3. Rarely/Never
12. Does she have a habit of playing the victim in every situation?
    1. Often/All the time
    2. Sometimes
    3. Rarely/Never
13. Does she give you the silent treatment any time you two are in an argument or when she is upset?
    1. Often/All the time
    2. Sometimes
    3. Rarely/Never
14. Does she gossip, spread rumors, or speak ill of others?
    1. Often/All the time
    2. Sometimes
    3. Rarely/Never
15. Is she unable to hold down a steady job?
    1. Often/All the time
    2. Sometimes
    3. Rarely/Never
16. Is she irresponsible with finances?
    1. Often/All the time
    2. Sometimes
    3. Rarely/Never

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