Am I Falling Out Of Love Quiz

The tough truth of relationships is that those first date butterflies don’t always last.  The initial spark may cool, replaced by a sense of comfortable familiarity.  But this shift can leave you wondering: Am I falling out of love or just comfortable?

Doubts and uncertainties can creep in, leaving you questioning your feelings. The longer the dreaded question, “Have I fallen out of love?” buzzes around in your mind, the louder it gets. This is a hard question, and sometimes the answer feels frustratingly unclear. There’s no single answer to “did I fall out of love?” or “what does falling out of love feel like?”.

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This “Am I Falling Out of Love Quiz,” created by a relationship counselor,  is designed to help you quiet this voice in your head and finally get the answers you’re looking for. She will ask provoking questions that might not be the easiest to answer but try to be as honest as you can. Take a deep breath and begin your journey towards understanding your relationship

Questions

1. How do you feel when you think about spending time with your partner?

• a) Excited and eager
• b) Indifferent or ambivalent
• c) Anxious or reluctant

2. How often do you initiate contact or make plans with your partner?

• a) Frequently, I enjoy spending time with them
• b) Occasionally, but I often find myself making excuses to avoid it
• c) Rarely, I prefer to spend time alone or with others

3. How do you feel when you’re around your partner?

• a) Happy and comfortable
• b) Neutral or disconnected
• c) Irritated or annoyed

4.  How often do you think about your partner when you’re apart?

• a) Frequently, they’re always on my mind
• b) Occasionally, but my thoughts are often fleeting
• c) Rarely, I don’t find myself thinking about them much

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5. How do you feel about physical intimacy with your partner?

• a) Excited and passionate
• b) Neutral or uninterested
• c) Uncomfortable or repelled

6. How do you handle conflicts or disagreements with your partner?

• a) Openly and constructively
• b) Avoidant or passive-aggressive
• c) Explosive or confrontational

7. How satisfied are you with the overall dynamic of your relationship?

• a) Very satisfied, I feel fulfilled and content
• b) Somewhat satisfied
• c) Dissatisfied, I feel unhappy and unfulfilled

8. How do you feel about your future with your partner?

• a) Optimistic and hopeful
• b) Uncertain or indifferent
• c) Pessimistic or resigned

9. How do you prioritize your partner in your life?

• a) They’re a top priority, and I make time for them regularly
• b) They’re important, but other aspects of my life take precedence
• c) They’re not a priority, and I often neglect spending time with them

10. How do you feel about the idea of ending your relationship?

• a) Devastated, I can’t imagine life without them
• b) Relieved or indifferent
• c) Liberated or hopeful for the future

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