Should I Breakup With My Boyfriend? Quiz

Relationships are tricky, and figuring out if it’s time to part ways with your boyfriend can be even trickier. That’s why we’re introducing the “Should I Break Up with My Boyfriend Quiz,” created by Dhriti Bhavsar, a psychologist with a master’s degree and a focus on counselling. Dhriti’s knowledge will help you decide whether it’s just a rough patch or whether you need to say goodbye.

Let’s start by reassuring you that you are not the first girlfriend who has thought to herself, “Should we separate?” or “Should we break up?” or “Did I choose the right person?” at some point. Relationships are not the rom-coms that movies make them out to be. This quiz is here to help you think it through. Dhriti has designed it to get you thinking about signs of unhappiness, toxicity, and trust issues in your relationship.

Relationships require a lot of time, love, and effort. So, of course, naturally, we are hesitant to let go. However, a relationship that is consistently making you unhappy is not one that you should force yourself to stay in. Let this quiz be your tool to shine a light on any doubts and help you make choices that lead to your happiness.

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1. Do you feel distant from your boyfriend despite making efforts to communicate?
   1. All/most of the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Not at all
2. Does your relationship feel one sided, like only one person makes all the effort?
   1. All/most of the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Not at all
3. Do you feel like he has added value and happiness to your life and will continue to in the future?
   1. All/most of the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Not at all
4. Does your boyfriend try to constantly blame you or control you?
   1. All/most of the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Not at all
5. Has this relationship affected your friendships negatively?
   1. All/most of the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Not at all
6. Do you feel scared of or disrespected by your boyfriend?
   1. All/most of the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Not at all
7. Are you comfortable being yourself around your boyfriend?
   1. All/most of the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Not at all
8. Do the two of you get along well and you enjoy spending time together?
   1. All/most of the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Not at all
9. Is your boyfriend attentive to your needs and wishes?
   1. All/most of the time
   2. Sometimes
   3. Not at all
10. Do you struggle with trusting your boyfriend?
    1. All/most of the time
    2. Sometimes
    3. Not at all
11. Does your boyfriend struggle with trusting you?
    1. All/most of the time
    2. Sometimes
    3. Not at all

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